John Aschenbrenner:
CLASS OF 1967
Queen of Apostles High SchoolClass of 1967
Madison, WI
John's Story
There are times when I need to go to Madison, and for old time sake I come in on Cottage Grove Road, past where QAS/QAHS once stood, and suddenly the memories of long ago rush back â from the times I got caught smoking in the cemetery, to the time Fr. Jarosch threw a typing book at me, and to those more difficult times as when Mike B. was killed in the stone quarry behind the school. Sometimes itâÂÂs difficult comprehending where the years went from the time I was 18 and graduating being 65 now.
Life moved quickly for me, and continues to do so. At times I have difficulty when people say things like âÂÂI play solitaire to pass the time.â My God, Man â thereâÂÂs too little if to pass any of it by.
After I graduated in 1967, I went to UW-Whitewater where I double majored in Marketing and Psychology. I liked the psychology more than the marketing, and in 1971 I began my MS in Educational Psychology, specializing in âÂÂCounseling and Guidance.â In the fall of 1973 I was positioned as a High School Counselor at Eisenhower High School in New Berlin. In 1984 I became The Director of Guidance where I remained until 2004 when I officially retired. But it wasnâÂÂt about retiring. I retired on Friday of that school year and on Monday I began a ý time position as residential counselor at RogerâÂÂs Psych Hospital, working in their alcohol and drug addiction program â The Herrington Program. Almost immediately I also took over the Aftercare Group meeting on Wednesday evenings.
Why work there after I was pensioned in Education? In 1998 I realized I had a problem with alcohol and spent 7 weeks at the treatment center where I presently work. Although I went back to my High School for the next 6 years, and now also as their AODA Counselor, I felt the need to continue my âÂÂgiving backâ and took the position at the same treatment where I was treated. My family, children and friends were extremely supportive during that difficult and very humbling period of time. But now, 16 years later, I feel IâÂÂm helping support and encourage otherâÂÂs attempting to come into their own continuing recoveries. I continue to sponsor many new to the process.
My wife Jane, and I were married in 1975 and weâÂÂll be celebrating 39 year years in December. Jane is a retired 4th Grade teacher and continues to do subbing in the Watertown Schools. We have three children, all grown, married and in their professions. Annie is Associate Director of Admissions and an Adjunct Professor of Ed. Psych at Carroll College, Michael is Professor of Art History at Carroll College, US-Milwaukee and the Milwaukee Institute of Art and Design. Andr...Expand for more
ew is in Corporate Sales at Southwest Airlines, and he and his wife have blessed us with our first grandchild, Zachary John, not yet 2 years old.
My life is full â some say too full. Aside from my work, I appraise, collect and sell Old German Stoneware and Beer Steins dating back to the medieval period. If you watch the Channel 10/36 Milwaukee Public TV Auction in spring, youâÂÂll see clips of me having a medieval book from 1560 appraised by a book dealer. What they donâÂÂt say is that I was appraising beer steins that day for the Appraisal Fair, and people will wonder what the hell IâÂÂm doing in Lederhosen!
My parents, long past, were immigrants from Bavaria, Germany and I return to that country as often as I can â I consider it home and have a large family continuing over there. Since 1970 and my 30-something trips, IâÂÂve completed a family history/genealogy dating unbroken back to 1443. The research found me meeting so many different interesting people in both Bavaria and the Austrian Alps.
IâÂÂm also a writer, and if you're interested in any of them I'll get the website to you (it's not allowed here:)
âÂÂReflections in ErikâÂÂs GymâÂÂ
âÂÂReclaiming BuckâÂÂ
âÂÂThe Fallen Gods of Mt. OlympusâÂÂ
The first two are addiction recovery based works of fiction (based in fact) â âÂÂReclaiming Buckâ has been very well received among the recovering community.
The third, âÂÂThe Fallen Godsâ¦â is a bittersweet look at aging, with the stage of the novel being a fitness center named Mt. Olympus, and the characters are a bunch of aging guys considering their getting older, mortality, spirituality and person meanings of life.
IâÂÂve almost completed my fourth â am working on the last chapter. ItâÂÂs my first attempt at a psychological thriller, entitled âÂÂSome Things ShouldnâÂÂt be Sold.â Consider finding yourself taking refuge from the cares of your day in an antique mall and being locked there for the night after a tornado hits â with no power, and a paranoid personality.
Since QAS/QHS my life has been full â Sometimes I think IâÂÂve lived three lives, and wouldnâÂÂt have it any other way.
I keep fairly close contact with Jim Pluer and Mike Miller from my class. For those of you who remember Jim Bostwick, he passed a couple of years ago after a long struggle with cancer â I know the world is a sadder place, having lost his sense of outrageous humor.
IâÂÂd love to hear from anyone in my graduation class, and any others. There were a mere 12 in that class of âÂÂ67. I wonder where life has found the others. Hopefully the years have been kind to you.
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